It’s Fearless Friday! In today’s episode I want to emphasize some personal self care and get you to make yourself a priority.
Yes, I get you have a busy life and as a man you are always looking for things to fix, improve and change.
Unfortunately, your altruistic motives don’t always lead to the result you had hoped for.
It is not uncommon to put your needs last.
A lot of men fall into this trap. And yes guys it is trap. If you are constantly putting yourself last, you are doing the bidding of others.
You are creating a scenario that is ripe for others to abuse.
This is when you are a people pleaser so that you will get people to like you.
You don’t want to be seen as someone that rocks the boat and the chance for people to judge you unfairly.
You don’t want to create conflict.
It’s a self worth issue.
If you are not where you want to be in life and feel a sense of resentment towards someone or even yourself, it’s because you did not express your values and boundaries.
You have to start by letting people know where you stand. As a man you have to let people know what you will and will not do!
So many men are unhappy because they have allowed others to control their life.
They did not speak up or step up when it came to what it is they wanted. So instead they stew. They do a slow burn of discontentment. Hoping that someone would acknowledge them and treat them fairly without them ever having to say something.
How’s that working for you?
It’s time you took matters into your own hands and took charge of your life!
Every day, you want to have “ME” time. Time just for you. Time to reflect, to run, to workout, to read, to journal or to plan.
As well, look at the big picture. What do you want for your life?
In order to get there, how much of a priority do you have to make yourself in order to make that future happen?
You may have to start saying “No” to people and projects that no longer serve the big picture that you have.
You deserve to be happy Brother!
You can, but it is a decision that you have to make. Every decision has a consequence.
When you make yourself a priority you take control back.
Some may not like the new you. But stand your ground. The happier and more at peace you become within yourself the more others will enjoy being around you.
Happy Fearless Friday!
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