Fatherhood. Wow! Big Subject!
If you are a father, want to be a father or have a father…this episode is for you!
Today Brothers we are talking about Fatherhood….Where the boys look for heroes.
We are going to look under the father hood of you will and talk about the importance dads have in a young man’s live.
Sadly, between 65% and 70% of boys today will be fatherless at some point in his life prior to his 18th birthday!
That’s amazing and most troubling!
There are many reasons why a Dad might not be able to be there for his son like he would like, and the biggest comes from a
judicial system that tends to see fathers as less than the ideal choice to raise a child.
Having the courts decide the fate of a child’s relationships with their dad is tragic.
If this is your battle, keep the faith brother and keep on fighting to be with you children. Don’t give up on them.
Other than that, there is no decent or acceptable reason to go rouge on your children.
You made a life contract with them they day their mom got pregnant and it doesn’t expire when you get a divorce or start a new family.
So many boys right now are turning within and isolating themselves. They have lost their sense of identity and self worth in a world of girl power, girls rock and girls are unstoppable.
Our pop culture, media and education system are heavy on the empowerment of girls, which is awesome and so needed.
However, the pendulum has swung and boys are feeling like they don’t matter.
It’s imperative for dads to step up their game as fathers in their children’s lives. The one man that has the ability to truly be a hero in a boy’s life is his dad.
Single moms are doing amazing at raising boys on their own, but still they are missing that masculine energy a young man needs to feel whole.
When it comes to fatherhood, do a check in with yourself and see if there are areas you dropped the ball. But more importantly what can you do now to fix it. How can you do right by your son? How can you be his hero?
Fatherhood also takes on a different dimension as well when you consider the relationship you have with your father.
If you relationship with your dad is not healed, your son needs to know why. It may very well a precursor to how and why you treat your son the way you do.
Reach out to your dad and begin the healing so that your son can see you and grandpa whole and complete.
This is a big subject brothers, and I do not profess to have all the answers.
But one thing I know for sure….Your son needs his hero.
If you would like support with healing your life with your children, your relationship and your personal world, reach out and let’s have a powerful conversation and see if we are a fit to work together.
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